Sunday, March 18, 2012

My Story

Hi everyone, it's Reese! Today I'm going to tell you a story. A story about my life: where I came from, my past, and now. This is the story of my life.

My hometown is in South Korea. I was born there and then adopted. You might think my mom Kara adopted me, but that's not how it worked out. I was adopted by a nice couple. The mother was named Maria and the father was John. They were nice people, but after a few years, when I was 5 years old, I was put into foster care. I didn't know why or what I did wrong. In the end, it turned out that they adopted another son and didn't want me anymore. It was hard to deal with, but I ended up getting over it.

I went to a foster home with lots of kids in New York City, New York. The rest of the foster children were all older than me; most of them were around 10 to 15 years old. I was only 5 and I was alone a lot. No one seemed to like me or pay attention to me. It was here that I developed a love for reading. One day, when I was wandering around, I found a huge library in the house. I spent hours there everyday, only coming out when asked. Within a few weeks, I had only touched a corner of the books. I read The Adventures of Robin Hood, Cinderella, Snow White, and other classics. These stories gave me hope for the future. I could pretend to be whoever I wanted to be. I played the role of Cinderella the most. I wished that I could have a fairy godmother and go to a ball with a prince!

Despite being alone most of the time, I liked the foster home. My foster parents were kind to me and I loved spending my days in the sunny library seated in a leather chair. It all seemed perfect. I almost hoped never to get adopted and never have to leave the books. But as things got better and better, I stumbled along the edge of a precipice. I was being transferred to another foster home. Apparently, the new foster home was in need of foster kids, and I was being volunteered for the job. I knew, even at seven years old, that I would miss the place. I still sometimes do.

The next foster home was worse. Much worse. The small-town Wisconsin home was cramped and lonely. The foster parents were new to the foster care system, and they didn't like to follow the rules. I was left alone and the only kid there. I was assigned a tiny room with no books and sometimes went a day without food if they forgot. It was like I was invisible; not even there. Most of the time, my foster parents were at work. They didn't like to pay attention to me and they only wanted me for the money. Before I knew it, they had a son. I wasn't needed or wanted anymore. I was brought to an orphanage, where I stayed for 2 years, until I was 10 years old.

Staying 3 years at an orphanage was hard. I was only young, which made it only worse. I was forced to fend for myself. My only possessions were my heart- shaped necklace from my biological parents ( who died in a fire) and the brown outfit on my back. There were many people there, but it wasn't a good thing. It was at the American Girl orphanage in New York City where I met one of my friends, Emery. Emery is the same age as me and currently lives in Seattle, Washington. Emery and I got along well. We both had nothing. We both came from a past in various foster homes. We both loved reading, acting, and animals. We were best friends. Emery looked the opposite of what I looked like. She had medium brown hair and I had dark brown hair (almost black). She had hazel eyes and I had brown eyes. None the less, we were the best of friends. We did everything together. Emery was adopted about  3 months before I was.

I remember the day I was adopted by my mom Emily. It was December 17, 2011, my thirteenth birthday. Emery was gone, I was lonely and sad, and I had no one to celebrate with. I remember the worker named Kerry coming to tell me to come to the office. I went without questioning it, and there stood a young woman smiling and excited.

"Reese, this is Emily." Kerry said. "She is going to be adopting you."

"Hi Reese, I'm Emily." My mom said, beaming down at me.

I wanted to scream for joy, but I knew not to get too excited. Would I be inadequately cared for? Would I be given away again? I was worried and scared from everything that had happened in my past.

"Hi Emily." Those two words were the first I spoke to my mother, who seemed to already love me.

Flashing forward to today, I now live with Emily and seven other girls. I quickly became friends with a girl named Nellie, who reminded me of Emery. I love my home and everyone loves each other. We are always doing fun things and spending lots of time together. But most importantly, there are lots of books.

Love,
Reese <3



6 comments:

  1. Hi, Reese, this is Summer.

    First off, thanks for telling us your story! *hugs* You've had a rough time of it, but I'm glad you're happy in your home with Kara and your sisters.

    Secondly, you aren't the only person who was adopted and then sent to foster care. It happened to both me and to Kiwi, who is my sister now - it happened in different homes, and we didn't know each other at the time. Kiwi was adopted from China, and I was adopted from foster care here in Canada. Our families couldn't handle our differences, so they didn't let us stay.

    I met Kiwi and our big sister Maia after that, in a foster home we were all sent to back when Maia was a kid too. I didn't know either of them before that, but we got really close. Maia aged out of the system, and when she became an adult she took legal custody of me and Kiwi, so now we have a real forever home. Now we have lots of other sisters, too.

    I'm sorry you had to go through that - but you aren't alone. We've been there too.

    I'm glad we're blog friends! :-)

    Love,
    Summer

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    1. Hi Summer! Thanks! It's comforting to know that other kids went through the same things as I did. I'm glad that you met you family! I really appreciate all the kind words! I'm glad we're friends too!

      Love,
      Reese <3

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  2. Thanks for telling your story! I feel so fortunate to have both loving parents in my life, and my heart really goes out to you. I'm so glad you've found a home with Kara, and that she's so very nice to you. :)
    *By the way, I just started following your blog! :)
    http://savedbygrace-kelleemarie.blogspot.com

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    1. Hi Kellee! You're welcome! I really appreciate all the kindness. I love my new family and I'm so lucky to have found them. Thanks, I love your blog!

      Love,
      Reese <3

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  3. Hi Reese,

    I'm glad to get to know more about you. I didn't have a very pleasant childhood either with my dad abandoning my family. But we're in a wonderful place now with so many great friends. Kara sounds like a great person!

    Emily

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    1. Hi Emily! Thanks! It's nice to know that I'm not alone. I love my family now and Kara is so nice!

      Love,
      Reese <3

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